What's the X factor that separates winners from losers, success from defeat, abundance from lack? While both winners and losers have a lot of answers, to me the X factor is never give up. Advanced creators know when they prevail the Universe, aka god/goddess/angels/subconscious mind/Higher I/guides etc will kick in to assist if they insist with focused Attention on achieving the goal. No manner what the odds, via awakened will they begin, aware that per their own Intuition doors will open when needed as they proceed empowered by their determination to reach the goal.
Those exploring creating their own reality will discover they also create their others as well - how scary is that! The abusive ex-husband, the drama queen mother & nutty aunt are just examples we all recognize and can take responsibility for. While we may feel guilty at first, we begin to realize how powerful we are! One way to handle is practicing HoOponopono so just do it!