Don't you marvel over life's twists and turns? If so then mind your word, especially what you emphatically insist you won't do. I've noticed it may be creating my possible next move or destination! The *subconscious mind software that does the manifesting, somehow measures emotional intensity such as "I'll never take him back/forgive/relocate/divorce/remarry" etc. Also notice what you dislike/disapprove/hate/shun because it likely will turn up on your doorstep. Eckhart Tolle shared the higher way, "This is my secret," he said. "I don't mind what happens".Eckhart Tolle, *subconscious mind software: doesn't recognize such words as 'never'