Have you ever noticed something caught your attention and in hindsight was a harbinger of connecting - good or bad? Even as a 15year old, when I met a couple of guys at the gas station then the next day saw one of them ahead of me at a stoplight and had an intuitive slap he was bad news and would play a role in my future (all true!). Another time at a workshop in Orlando there was a contingency of rowdy South Americans and when I glanced their way one of them looked up with a hostile eye to eye stare and I felt a foreboding in my gut -- sure enough, later through a twisty turny you can't make this stuff up six degrees of separation thing a connection happened that still influences my life today! I've had several other experiences like these so now use my mojo/shield/block/avoid this stuff. Should this happen to you, just say "No"!