''The elf-queene, with hir joly compaignie, Daunced ful ofte in many a grene mede.” Geoffrey Chaucer "The Wife of Bath’s Tale"

SAVE THE GRIEF

We're familiar with "Don't cast your pearls before swine" -- good advice from Jesus the Great Master.  Most learned quickly to share their gems with others of likemind, and save the grief.  Just associate with equals on your level.